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February 29th, 2008

Shoulder Update

Well, a while back, I talked in depth about what was going on with my shoulder in this post. This past Wednesday was D-Day, or I should say S-Day for surgery Day. I hate to admit it, but I was fairly nervous about this whole thing. I think it just has something to do with being put under and not knowing or having any control at this time. To add to my nerves, they called me the day before to say that my surgery wouldn’t happen until 3:45pm, so that pretty much gave me the entire day to think about it. In hind site, it worked out well, but I’ll get to that in a minute. Around 2:00pm we arrived at the Surgery Center. It’s not a hospital, just a surgery center where doctors come in and knock out up to 10 surgeries in a day. Honestly, it felt like an assembly line process…not what I expected or wanted. I wanted to have my own room where Barbie and I could hang out and then eventually recover in. Well, so much for that, as I quickly found out I would be waiting in a room with about 5 other people (the room actually held 8). So, Barbie went home and would return back later since she wasn’t allowed in.

When I spoke to the nurse a week earlier about the details of the surgery, she said it would be about a 30 minute surgery, and that made me feel better about things. However, the nurses at the surgery center said it would be about a 90 minute surgery. That’s a big difference. Anyways, they put me on a rolling gurney and wheeled me into the waiting room about 2:15 and began prepping me, which included a quite embarassing shave job of half my chest. They kept asking me if I had seen the movie 40 year old Virgin, to which they all had a good time with. So, there I am, chest half shaven, in a gown, just sitting there waiting. I quickly learned that shoulder surgeries were harder than knee surgeries as most of the anesthesiologists prepped the other people for surgery. They obviously didn’t know I was in the room, as they kept saying how easy a knee surgery was, and that some of the other doctors (my doctor) was being delayed by a shoulder surgery. Well, as I mentioned, I got in there about 2:15, and not until 4:00 did I finally have my anesthesiologist come to tell me the drill, which I had heard before from the other patients. I was literally the last person in the room, just sitting there waiting.

So, the procedure is that they give me a “cocktail” right before we go into the operating room to help calm my nerves, then when they are ready, they give me the knock out drug which puts me under in less than 10 seconds. They then put a breathing tube down my throat since I have to be on my side during the surgery and the anesthesiologist cannot get to me to manually monitor the breathing. He assured me that I wouldn’t know any of this as it would be put in after I was under and removed before I woke up. I then asked him if I get to talk to the doctor before the surgery, and he said yes, but you won’t remember it. Great…what’s the point then? I had a couple questions, but if I can’t remember the answers, who cares.

4:15pm comes and they start wheeling me in and give me the first “cocktail.” After about 10 seconds everything is getting a little blurry, and I remember saying a few things, and that’s it…LIGHTS OUT! I don’t remember the second cocktail, changing tables, or anything. Next thing I know I wake up to a nurse and feel a plastic thing in my mouth and can’t say anything. I remember trying to tell her to get it out of my mouth, but according to the nurse I was very agitated about it and demanded it to be removed. Of course, as soon as the breathing tube was removed they put the tubes that go in your nostrils on, and I got upset about that also. Barbie told the nurse that I was upset about it, and the nurse told her that was nothing, you should have seen him with the breathing tube in his throat. Anyways, the nurse would ask me questions, and I would try to stay awake to answer a few things, but then I was right back to sleep. I guess it took about 1.5 hours for me to recover and wake up enough to go home.

When leaving the surgery center, I had a sling for my arm, a cold wrap that went around my shoulder, and a catheter that went directly into the shoulder joint and gave it pain medication. That first night I went right back to sleep, and despite waking up many times, it wasn’t as bad as I thought it was going to be. Being able to come home and go right to sleep made the late start time of the surgery all worth it.

The following day I had my follow up visit with the Dr. and he said there was a lot more fraying of the bone than expected and that the rotator was partially torn/frayed, but didn’t need anything stitched. The good news was that I couldn’t re-injure it if I moved around too much since it was mainly all bone sawing, which can’t be undone obviously. They took my arm out of the sling, cleaned up some of the bandages, and I was on my way back home. Today, I’ve had the sling off most of the day and am feeling a lot better than expected. Barbie took out the catheter earlier this evening, so the pain might creep up a little more now, but so far so good. If I can get my hands on some pics, I’ll upload them, but as of now, things are going good.

February 24th, 2008

More of Kyle Walking

The first video is from Feb. 1st and is just a short clip of Kyle playing in Modesto. The second clip is of Kyle at Day Care on Feb. 5th. I was actually trying to get him to follow me out to the car, but as you’ll see he had something else in mind. The amazing thing is that he has no fear going anywhere and walking over anything. At one point, instead of following the path, he decides to vier off into the woods. :-)

 
icon for podpress  Kyle in Modesto [0:23m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

 
icon for podpress  Kyle showing me outside [1:41m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download
February 20th, 2008

Lexus Crunch

Well, I don’t have any Kitchen updates as my morning didn’t really start out quite as I had hoped. I got out of the shower about 7:15am this morning and heard the door bell ring. I got dressed, ran down stairs, and found that it was the Appliance guys here to deliver our new kitchen appliances. I told them I would open the garage and move the car so they could get the appliances into the garage.

Well, it just so happened to be a rainy morning, not much light, and my rear view window wasn’t the cleanest. With all of these going on, I was being very cautious about backing out of the driveway as I saw that their truck was parked halfway through the exit. As I am backing out, I consider stopping and turning around so that I go face forward out of the driveway, but looking at my mirrors and through the rear view camera, there seems to be just enough room to get by without having to go over grass and without hitting their bumper. As I am pulling out (about 2-3mph) all of the sudden I hear a crunch, and as I look back, the entire rear glass window shatters! I have no idea what has happened as I thought I had plenty of room. I get out of the car, and realize their lift gate is down, and that is what I hit. I’m not certain whether or not they had just put it down, which I highly suspect but they wouldn’t confirm, but if you look at the pictures and imagine that the gate is at about the same exact eye level as my mirrors and camera, you can see that it is very thin, and also given the weather conditions, you can probably tell why I didn’t see it. Both guys were in the truck at the time I hit the truck, which makes me think they had just recently put it down, but neither of them saw me coming and couldn’t say anything.

So, now we are without the car for about a week as it gets repaired. They have to replace the rear window, two driver side rear tail lights, and fix the slight dent in front of the tail light. Luckily, the slight dent is the only body damage, but it doesn’t mean it isn’t costly. I guess that is what insurance is for. Below are some of the images and a link to the album.

From Lexus Crash 2…
From Lexus Crash 2…
From Lexus Crash 2…

Also, you can view the video of the Lexus after the crash.

 
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February 19th, 2008

Kitchen Redesign (Day 12)

Well, they seemed to have almost finished installing the bottom cabinets. Of course, that all got changed a little bit as of this morning as we decided to switch the pantries so that the crack would be hidden by the refriderator. They did a good job of repairing it, but you could still tell, so might as well hide it. Go to the gallery to see the crack, and the new pictures. Below is the latest video.

 
icon for podpress  Day 12 (2/18/2008) [1:06m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download
February 18th, 2008

Kitchen Redesign (Day 11)

Well, 95% of the things thus far had gone without a hitch, but that seemed to have change drastically last Friday. First, one of the cabinets was originally reported as “broken” to me, but come to find out it was just a major crack that was only on the faceplate, so it can easily be repaired with a screw and some glue. Normally, I would say replace it, but given that it takes 3 weeks to replace it and it would put everything else on hold (still not sure why), the screw and glue will be just fine.

The second “problem” was reported to me on my drive home when Barbie called to say the cabinet that holds the ovens isn’t large enough, in both height and width. Once I got home, they showed me how the cabinet was 30 inches wide, and then showed me the specs for the oven, which they said required 32 inches. Well, thank goodness for a 3rd pair of eyes as both Barbie and the carpenter were looking at the wrong measurement, and it really said it only needed 29 5/8″, so we were good there. However, they were right about the height of the opening for the ovens, but talking to Danny (the cabinet guy) he says that is how they all come and that the carpenter just needs to expand the opening to fit the ovens. So, all in all, a little extra work for the carpenter, but no major disasters to report. Enjoy the video.

 
icon for podpress  Day 11 (Completed work as of 2/15/08) [1:10m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download
February 15th, 2008

Kitchen Redesign (Day 10)

OK, as you saw last time, the kitchen cabinets have arrived, and the only thing left to do inside was to clean up the trench and get it ready. So, yesterday, the finished running the electrical and water pipes for the island, and also filled the trench in with concrete. There’s no going back now unless we bring back out the jack hammer. Today the cabinets get installed, although I hear one of them might be broken…uh oh.

 
icon for podpress  Day 10 (2/14/2008) [1:20m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download
February 14th, 2008

Kyle Playing at Day Care

Here is a fun little video clip that I took of Kyle back on 2/1/2008 playing on the structure at Day Care. The little girl in the beginning, Joie, is very nice and says “here you go Kyle” as she hands Kyle back one of the toys that he tossed over the side of the structure. The Day Care actually has a policy that says no toys on the structure so that kids learn to use the hand rails when walking down the stairs. They say when kids have toys in their hands they try to go without the handrail and end up falling down the stairs. Kyle actually ends up taking the slide down, and his facial expression is priceless. Enjoy!

 
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February 14th, 2008

Kitchen Redesign (Day 9)

So, yesterday was a big day, although the pictures and videos don’t show it. Basically, the workers textured all the dry wall, and that is pretty much all you can tell from the pictures. However, the video shows you the big news, which is that our cabinets were delivered. Of course, our garage is now not usable, but Barbie opened up one of the boxes and the cabinets look like they will go well with the granite that we picked out the day before. Enjoy the pics and video.

 
icon for podpress  Day 9 (2/13/2008) [1:43m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download
February 13th, 2008

Kitchen Design (Day 8)

OK…the Dry Wall is up and it’s starting to look more and more like a normal room again. It’s amazing how much these two carpenter guys can get done in a single day. I remember back in College when my buddies and I went up to Opelika, Alabama (just outside of Auburn) to help my one buddy Daniel gut his new house and put up dry wall. We learned a lot back then, and how difficult it truly is to make sure the hole for each of the outlets and switches are perfectly aligned. Therefore, I have some appreciation of how good and quick these guys are. Enjoy the video and more pictures at the Kitchen Design photo album.

 
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February 12th, 2008

Kitchen Redesign (Day 7)

So, yesterday they came in and started to get ready for putting up the sheet rock. They put the insulation back into the wall, and actually brought the sheet rock into the kitchen. The electrician came in and tidied up the switches and was also able to run a cable for the eventual TV on the Garage Wall. Finally, they secured the support 2×4’s that are holding up the support beam with a metal strap. Check out the video below and more pictures at the photo album link.

http://picasaweb.google.com/dgraver/KitchenRedesign

 
icon for podpress  Day 7 (2/11/2008) [2:18m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download